Bali Hai pt. 2

Bali Hai pt. 1

Again, Steve Harvey thoughts just wowed me

This is exactly how you all expect men to love you in return. Ask any woman what kind of love she wants from a man, and it will sound something like this:

I want him to be humble and smart, fun and romantic, sensitive and gentle, and, above all, supportive.
I want him to look in my eyes and tell me I’m beautiful and that I complete him.
I want a man who is vulnerable enough to cry when he is hurting, who will introduce me to his mother with a smile on his face, who loves children and animals.
Who is willing to change diapers and wash dishes and do it all without me having to ask.
And if he has a nice body and lot of money it would be great, too.

Well, expecting that kind of love from a man is unrealistic.
It’s not gonna happen, no way, no how.

Because a man’s love isn’t like a woman’s love. A man’s love is different.
Much more simple, direct, and probably a little harder to come by.
His love is still love, though. It’s just different from the love that women give and in a lot of cases, want.

So if youre expecting a guy who act impossibly romantic like that, then go to Forks and find Edward Cullen. :))
and once again, Steve Harvey just made everything make sense to me. Thanks to his book. <3

Steve Harvey - Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man.

“A man fishes for two reasons: he’s either sport fishing or fishing to eat.
Which means he’s either going to try to catch the biggest fish he can, take a picture of it, admire it with his buddies and toss it back to sea.
Or he’s going to take that fish on home.
This, I think, is a great analogy for how men seek out women.”

“Be smart about it. Know that if this man isn't looking for a serious relationship, you're not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate.
You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you're independent (which means, to him, that you're not going to be in his pockets)
-but if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he is only going to treat you like sports fish.”


― Steve Harvey, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy

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