Steve Harvey - Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man.

“A man fishes for two reasons: he’s either sport fishing or fishing to eat.
Which means he’s either going to try to catch the biggest fish he can, take a picture of it, admire it with his buddies and toss it back to sea.
Or he’s going to take that fish on home.
This, I think, is a great analogy for how men seek out women.”

“Be smart about it. Know that if this man isn't looking for a serious relationship, you're not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate.
You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you're independent (which means, to him, that you're not going to be in his pockets)
-but if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he is only going to treat you like sports fish.”


― Steve Harvey, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy